Lamar was introduced to art as a young teen after her grandmother bought her an art
book. At the time, her family was living in Little Rock, Arkansas, and struggling
to carry on after her father, a United States Air Force pilot, was shot down during
combat in the Vietnam War. For nearly seven years, he was held as a prisoner of war
at the infamous Hanoi Hilton.
"Our family was very broken by that. I just shut down," she says. Lamar saw a therapist
and the experience inspired her to become a psychologist. "I was fascinated by how
people live through difficult moments and got interested in wanting to understand
that."
When her father returned home, she was enrolled at the University of Arkansas, Little
Rock. Lamar later transferred to the University of Texas at Austin, where she earned
a bachelor's in psychology. In 1980, she began at North Texas in the counseling psychology master's program and went on to complete the counseling psychology Ph.D. program.
Her first date with her husband, electric bass player and UNT College of Music alum Steve Carter ('77), happened the same day she accepted an internship in Boston, where she lived
and worked for a year before returning to Denton in 1985.
Lamar later opened a private psychology practice in Carrollton, which relocated to
Denton in 2002. Despite the busyness of life -- she was also raising her daughter,
Simone Carter ('19, '22 M.A.) -- Lamar needed a creative outlet, so she enrolled in a noncredit
art course at UNT. "There was something very personal to me about art that touched
my soul and my spirit. It was very calming for me and very supportive."
She furthered her studies with additional courses at Texas Woman's University. Several
of Lamar's paintings and prints adorn the walls at her Denton office, where The Art
Room initially was housed before moving to its current South Locust Street location
two years ago.
Lamar was first inspired to open the studio in the early 1990s, after watching a documentary
about a New York psychiatrist who operated an art space for patients with serious
mental health issues. "I thought that would be great to do and just kind of tucked
the idea away."
She circled back to it decades later and co-founded the studio with Denton psychotherapist
Maryam Flory ('08), who serves as vice president and secretary of the board.