Elaine Nunn Schoch ('99), editor and founder of Carpe Travel, a travel website, says that just because
you have children doesn't mean you can't travel.
"If you traveled often before having children, learn to adjust your time management
to include your children's needs," she says. "Kids have to use the bathroom frequently,
and hurrying them can make the situation worse. And they also like time to explore."
She offers these tips to keep family vacations safe and memorable:
- Set realistic expectations. There's so much stimulation for children from just being
in a new place that they don't have to have the entire day scheduled. Plan a morning
activity, then spend the afternoon at the hotel pool, or the beach if one is nearby,
so the children can just play. During the evening, do another activity if the children
are rested.
- Keep an emergency travel card containing identification, emergency contact information
and the name of your hotel inside each child's pocket, pinning it to the pocket if
necessary. If you're traveling internationally, the card should be written in both
your native language and the language of the nation you're visiting. Children could
also wear an identification bracelet.
- Older children should know your cell phone number, home address, name of your hotel
and other vital information. If they are too young to remember names, point at the
logos on the hotel and help them describe the logos.
- Suitcases, backpacks and clothing displaying your children's first names or last names
may be cute, but they can also prompt unwelcome attention from people looking for
an opportunity to start a conversation with your children. Leave personalized things
at home while you're traveling, or personalize them using your children's initials
only.
- Germs don't take a vacation. Packing over-the-counter remedies for headaches, diarrhea,
cuts and scrapes, sore throats and other conditions. And pack enough prescription
medication in case you are delayed in returning home, keeping the medications close
by in your carry-on bag.
- You can't always leave the laptop and your work at home, but removing the layer of
stress from the office allows you to focus on your family and create memories that
you and your kids will treasure. Limit time spent on work while on vacation to a set
day, or a set time each day, and let your family know that is your dedicated time
to work and try to stick with that time allotment. And instead of pulling out a tablet
or other electronic device to occupy your children, try giving them cameras, journals
or coloring books to record the vacation.